About Kym Showers
I’m a BIG fan of Marriage and a BIG fan of Happiness. I have both. I know you can too. Jeff and I have been married for 35 years. We’re completely different. The reason we are still married and still happy is because we keep reinventing ourselves through every season. I’ve always been able to see the possibilities with our relationship. I have never wanted to feel stuck. I think outside the box and take responsibility for my own happiness. Jeff is not here to meet my needs and make me happy. Jeff is here for me to love and to enjoy.
It only takes one person in a marriage to change for the marriage to change. If you’re feeling a little unhappy and stuck and you have thoughts like ‘I married the wrong person’ or ‘he drives me crazy’ or ‘he doesn’t listen to me’ or ‘she doesn’t meet my needs’ or ‘she spends too much money’….welcome to the brain of anyone who has ever been married. You’re not a special unicorn. Nothing has gone wrong. Actually, this is when it can get really fun if you want it to. Everything is figure-out-able. I’m really good at helping couples figure their stuff out.
I’m a BIG fan of Marriage,
and a BIG fan of Happiness.
For sure you are never stuck. You can do anything you want to do. If you want to leave your marriage you can. People do it all the time. Some marriages aren’t supposed to last. If you want to stay in your marriage and be miserable, you can do that too. People do it all the time. However, if you want to stay in your marriage and change yourself and show up differently and reinvent the way you think and feel about it, you can do that. I can help.
Coaching couples is the most exciting work I’ve ever done. Marriage doesn’t have to be hard. It can be reinvented at any time. I know this for sure. I’ve had lots of practice. I have tools to teach you that you will use the rest of your life. Stop blaming. Stop feeling guilty. Start having fun. Start living a new story.